Personal-finance knowledgeable Lynnette Khalfani-Cox just isn’t 5 ft into the reception space of News Corp places of work in Manhattan to examine in for an interview with MarketWatch earlier than she runs into an outdated colleague who’s now operating one of many divisions by which Khalfani-Cox used to work, earlier than she was laid off, some 20 years in the past.
She has been again earlier than, however not fairly like this. She’s right here to speak about her new guide, “Bounce Back: The Ultimate Guide to Financial Resilience,” by which dropping that dream job in 2003 and turning the defeat right into a profitable profession options prominently.
“It’s kind of surreal to be back here, but it feels like a full-circle moment in so many ways,” says Khalfani-Cox, settling right into a convention room.
After years of reporting for Dow Jones Newswires and the Wall Street Journal, together with a stint as an on-air correspondent for the Journal on CNBC, Khalfani-Cox picked herself up instantly from her layoff and began her personal financial-education firm, the Money Coach, along with her husband, Earl. She spent years serving to folks get out of debt, writing quite a few books on the subject, together with the bestseller “Zero Debt.” There have been many adventures alongside the best way, like being the personal-finance knowledgeable for “The Dr. Oz Show” and elevating three children. (A disclosure: She additionally wrote a contract column for WalletPop, an internet site I ran that disbanded in 2011.)
“My last day on air at CNBC was March 1, 2003, and that same month I started my company. And so now I’m 20-plus years [into it and] going strong. And, frankly, I have not looked back,” she says.
The 10 dreaded Ds
Being downsized just isn’t the one problem lined in “Bounce Back” and a corollary “Bounce Back Workbook” that’s being launched on the identical time. Khalfani-Cox goes via 9 different “dreaded Ds” — divorce, loss of life of a liked one, incapacity, illness, disasters, debt, broken credit score, greenback deficits and discrimination — most of which she has additionally gone via herself and emerged on the opposite facet.
Her key to dealing with all of those stems from the best way she dealt with her layoff, which was with a perception you could’t let a foul circumstance derail you out of your long-term targets. You cope with it and hold going.
“People go into retrenchment mode when they’re facing a financial crisis. The tendency is to kind of lock down, and in some cases even double down on doing the bad things,” says Khalfani-Cox. “People will ask me, what should I do first: pay off my debt or save? And I say you have to do both. The two are not mutually exclusive, and it’s in your best interest to do both.”
Take what occurs when folks resort to 401(okay) loans and hardship withdrawals, for instance. Typically, folks will cease contributing whereas they’re withdrawing cash, which is sensible intuitively, however not financially for the long run. “They don’t realize they’re compounding the issue,” says Khalfani-Cox. “You absolutely should keep contributing, especially when you have a really robust year for the stock market, like we did in 2023.”
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This is how Khalfani-Cox discovered to handle as she went via that job disaster 20 years in the past and wanted seed cash to begin her firm. She was spending down retirement financial savings as a result of she had no emergency funds, however, on the identical time, she began to save lots of once more for retirement with proceeds from the corporate.
“I absolutely had a period where I saved less, but then my husband and I each opened a solo 401(k), and we just max it out for both of us every single year,” she says. “Our retirement strategy is really about broad diversification and being in areas where we feel most comfortable. So I absolutely invest in the stock market, but we also own eight investment properties and we’re using real estate as part of the cornerstone for our retirement strategies.”
The ‘D’ most individuals don’t discuss
Dealing with actual property led Khalfani-Cox to incorporate a candid chapter on discrimination in “Bounce Back.”
“As I was writing, it occurred to me that so much of personal finances is judgment-laden. It’s like the morality police come out and start pointing fingers, telling people that any shortcoming they have is a sin practically,” she says. “There is very little recognition of the systemic structural forces that are at play that can sometimes be barriers to people achieving financial security. So I just wanted to put it out there.”
Discrimination within the monetary sector can are available in all types of the way for a lot of communities, whether or not it’s about race, gender, sexuality, incapacity or another issue. Most of it comes all the way down to lacking out on alternatives or being provided much less ultimately.
The story Khalfani-Cox shares in her guide is about getting an appraisal on her home for a home-equity mortgage that was $100,000 lower than market worth, as an African-American applicant in a majority-white city. “I cannot tell you how many Black people have had that experience,” she says. She and her husband appealed via the financial institution, and it despatched a second appraiser — this time an African-American man — and acquired a greater end result.
“There’s a whole issue that the financial-services industry needs to address when it comes to financial inclusion, and they’re very much aware of it,” says Khalfani-Cox. “It needs to be addressed on multiple fronts, and not only from the standpoint of what’s going on in terms of housing.”
The message of “Bounce Back” is that the best way via it — and all the opposite disasters that may strike — is to maintain combating.
“My sisters and I always use this expression: One monkey don’t stop no show. That means the show must go on you, you power through things,” says Khalfani-Cox. “Change is going to happen to all of us. It just gets dropped into your lap whether or not you want it. But change is something external that happens to you. Transition happens within you, and that’s when you process the change that has occurred in your life. It’s an opportunity for a new, potentially brighter future.”
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