‘I will be a tenant’: My boyfriend needs me to maneuver into his dwelling and pay lease. I prompt solely paying for utilities and groceries. What ought to I do?

My boyfriend lately purchased a home below his identify. Before shopping for, I prompt that we purchase it collectively, because the plan was for us to maneuver in collectively. However, he stated he wished to purchase it himself.

Now it’s time to maneuver in, however he needs me to pay lease. I informed him that it was not honest for me to pay lease as a result of if we broke up or if he offered the home, all of the revenue from the sale would go to him, and I might get nothing.

I at present dwell in a apartment that I lately paid off. So I’ve no mortgage, and the expectation is that I might lease out my apartment. He additionally owns a paid-off apartment, which he additionally plans to lease out. 

He thinks that since I’ll profit from renting my apartment, I ought to pay lease. I disagree. I made a decision to purchase a apartment as a result of I didn’t wish to pay lease. I’ll profit from renting out my place, however that doesn’t change the truth that the home is below his identify. 

‘If we broke up or if he sold the house, all the income from the sale would go to him, and I would get nothing.’

I can be paying a portion of the mortgage, however he would earn 100% of the fairness. Instead of lease, I provided to pay for all of the utilities, web, cable and groceries. 

In addition, he’s bringing all his personal furnishings. The solely room I can assist adorn is the household room, and he’s already telling me how he needs to embellish it. He is making me really feel like I can be a tenant or roommate.

I can be paying to dwell there, however the home, the setting and the decor can be his.

On one event earlier than he purchased the home, I prompt that we lease a spot collectively. His response was an absolute no, as a result of he didn’t wish to pay lease to a 3rd social gathering when he already owns a apartment. I really feel that now he needs me to do precisely what he was not prepared to do.  

What do you advocate I do?

The Girlfriend 

Dear Girlfriend,

Ultimately, your boyfriend could have fairness in the home as a result of he takes the chance, and paying curiosity on his mortgage, and property taxes, along with the final maintenance of this property.

If you comply with dwell in your boyfriend’s home, the proprietor units the principles. He wished to purchase a home by himself. If you purchased a second dwelling and wished your boyfriend to pay lease, I might inform him the identical factor.

And positive, he’ll lease out his outdated apartment, however you’d you additionally lease out yours — and with that revenue you’d seemingly greater than cowl any lease funds to him. Remember, he can be paying month-to-month mortgage funds on the brand new home. 

You must resolve what you imagine is honest, and your boyfriend will resolve how a lot he believes it is best to pay (not more than half the mortgage fee, for my part). And you’ll each act accordingly. No one is forcing the opposite’s hand.

‘If you bought a home and wanted him to pay rent, I would tell him the same thing.’

You say little or no concerning the nature of your relationship. How lengthy have you ever been collectively? Five years? One 12 months? This will clearly affect what sort of dedication you might be each prepared to comply with at this level. 

There are additionally greater questions on your relationship and whether or not you each see a long-term future. Given your present deadlock, it looks as if he needs to not less than preserve your funds separate.

You are additionally involved about how your funds can be categorized: lease vs. utilities and groceries and many others. If your utilities and groceries totaled $700 and he requested you for $700 to lease, would that matter?

Ultimately, you each have decisions to make. Do you wish to transfer in on his phrases? And is that this the type of relationship you need? Some individuals on the Moneyist Facebook web page are saying, “Run!” That’s not for me to say.

But you might have one other selection: You can keep the place you might be, preserve your independence and luxuriate in this relationship by yourself phrases, and see the way it performs out. Time provides you with all the opposite solutions you want.

Yocan e mail The Moneyist with any monetary and moral questions associated to coronavirus at qfottrell@marketwatch.com, and observe Quentin Fottrell on Twitter.

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The Moneyist regrets he can not reply to questions individually.

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