‘My spouse thinks she’s Kim Kardashian’: She spends cash on garments, cocktails and has $10,000 in credit-card debt. It’s getting worse.

Dear Quentin,

I’ve a really completely happy marriage. We have two teenage kids, 13 and 15, who’re very nicely balanced, and who’re at the moment at summer season camp. That is costing us $1,500 for one week, and I don’t thoughts paying it. It’s a ceremony of passage, and we each see it as integral for growing their social expertise as they study to navigate the world in what is usually a tumultuous time.

I…